“Without such a love map, you can’t really know your spouse. And if you don’t really know someone, how can you truly love them?”
Q&A with Nate and Ang
"It feels like my whole marriage I have felt like there is something missing. Sometimes I see qualities that are not in my marriage in other people, and it makes me lust after them. I keep feeling like I have to bury my feelings because my marriage is great, but it just feels like two people tolerating each other."
We took this picture right after we decided to get married. Here’s to starting out in the journey of getting to know each other’s “Love Maps!”

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a LDS relationship and sexuality coach as well as a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the state of Illinois. She has a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. In addition to her dissertation research on LDS women's sexuality and relationship to desire, she has taught college level human sexuality courses. Her teaching and coaching focuses on helping LDS individuals and couples achieve greater satisfaction and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships.
In addition to consultation with couples and individuals (in person and online), she offers online relationship and sexuality courses as well as live workshops and retreats for LDS couples and individuals.
Jennifer is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts and write articles for LDS-themed blogs and magazines, on the subjects of sexuality, relationships, mental health and faith.